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You’ve been friends a long time, why won’t she date you?
Date: December 21st, 2006, Filed under Be a Man, Uncategorized
It is lately the most popular search topic that finds this site — and one of the most common questions I get asked by men I know who just can’t seem to convert a girl they like into a girl who likes them. Sometimes a guy will have been friends with a girl for months or years, and continue to wonder why she never showed interest in him. I get asked that a lot — “how can I make her love me?” The answer, unfortunately, is that you can’t.
Read this entire article at the Be A Man site.
Be A Man Q&A: Do short guys have problems dating?
Date: December 15th, 2006, Filed under Be a Man
It’s a common question, and also a very common search phrase at Google — do short guys have a problem dating? It would seem so, according to some statistical websites, such as the Short Person Support site.1 The site shows some interesting statistics — women seem to prefer taller guys. That site says that 8% of women who are 5′6″ would choose a shorter guy, and 13% of women 5′8″ woudl choose a shorter guy. But I know these statistics are wrong — I’m a shorter man (5′7″) and I definitely haven’t had problems dating. In reality, it isn’t the height of the man that is the problem, it is the attitude that comes along with most men, tall or short. While women may THINK they won’t date a short man (or a shorter man), in reality most women just won’t date an unconfident man. Why is it that short guys tend to not have confidence? Maybe they were raised with a fear that women won’t date them! It is a viscious circle — shorter guys fear that they won’t have luck with a certain woman, and their lack of confidence ends up showing that to be true. This leads that woman to believe she doesn’t like the guy because of his height, instead of realizing that he’s just not confident.
Read this entire article at the Be A Man site.
Why Men Marry Bitches
Date: July 24th, 2006, Filed under Be a Man
I couldn’t believe it until I actually went and picked up a copy. Sales ranking today at #535 at Amazon is a book that is being vacuumed up by thousands and thousands of modern women, and most men stare blankly in ignorance of the treasure that is contained between the covers. Read this entire article at the Be A Man site.
5-Steps to building confidence, Part 5
Date: June 26th, 2006, Filed under Be a Man
The fifth step to building confidence rolls up all previous 4 steps and adds a little part to them. You’re going to have to practice all 4 steps together for the fifth step to be profitable for you if you’re an unconfident man. Read this entire article at the Be A Man site.
5-Steps to building confidence, Part 4
Date: June 23rd, 2006, Filed under Be a Man
One of the biggest reasons for a lack of confidence that many men face comes from their lack of self esteem. I think I’ve seen it all (and probably have felt it, too) when it comes to the various reasons for a man lacking in self esteem: they feel ugly, they’re too skinny, they’re too fat, they’re too hairy, they’re bald, they’re not smart enough, they’re too smart, they don’t know how to dress, they can’t dance, they can’t talk to people, they’re afraid of being denied something they want, and more. Read this entire article at the Be A Man site.
5-Steps to building confidence, Part 3
Date: June 15th, 2006, Filed under Be a Man
There’s something odd about some unconfident men in the way they act — they’re shy, but when they do speak they’ll blurt out words or jokes or thoughts that really aren’t topical to the discussion, or distract from the relationship between the man and the person he is with. We usually look at these non-sequitirs as geeky actions, but they’re just a surface sign of a lack of confidence. Read this entire article at the Be A Man site.
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